shakenjester
replied to your post “Ok like… I like the idea of a bit of a struggle in who’s going to…”

BDSM is loosely an umbrella term, much as ‘queer’ has for the LGBT+ community. It defines a VERY broad set of deviant sexual behaviors. Your power play is just as much BDSM as omorashi is as much as pet play is ect. It’s what you and your partner[s] define it as BUT!!!! I MUST STRESS THE THREE ’S’S!! SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL!! Talk with your partner[s] before, during and after the scene, don’t do it under the influence of drugs or alcohol, and GET CONSENT EVEN DURING SEX!!

yyyuuuup you put it better than me