I’ve struggled with this a lot, and still do, and it’s not fun 😦
I guess it’s just a matter of making yourself realize that no matter how much we’d mope and feel bad and worry, it isn’t going to make our friends’ lives turn for the better. By being happy and content ourselves and being a positive force in another person’s life we can make a much bigger impact than by moping in silence for them. Sending you lots of strength and goodfeels!

yes, you’re absolutely right *nod* just needs to finally get in the head as well x.x learning learning learning…