Nah I agree completely, if the sub and Dom have talked about it and the sub WILLINGLY goes out and breaks a rule/pushes a boundary, etc, something to deliberately bring on like… A spanking, or something, that’s hot!!! Pushy subs are great.
But no communication, with the Dom going after the sub for something ‘out of line’, seems like they’re LOOKING for a reason to be sadistic, without proper consent. Idk man it seems really abusive in that context

yes definitely; it’s just not as hot if not both know what they’re getting into x.x 

at least to me.