You dont have to answer this if its too personal but how do you deal with being ace and also having(?) kinks? People tell me its weird that an Ace would have Kinks but I’m Ace and I definately have Kinks its just… I don’t want them to happen to me? Does that make sense?
I deal with it fine. It hurts nobody and is a private matter anyway. Nobody has the right to tell you it’s weird because it’s a very personal matter and none of their damn business in the first place. Plus there’s a term for it.