Well, in some countries promising that you’ll use a condom and then not is actually now classified as rape; you don’t have to tag it, but that’s what I meant by rapey. Or at least having such a selfish attitude – there’s no rape but there’s also no respect for his partner. I just feel that’s OOC, and I ain’t kink-shaming no one cuz I am not a hypocrite. :P

no I understand you. It definitely is rapey and wrong, but I would not necessarily say that it is OOC. I think Genji pre-assassination attempt was a huge fuckboi and super problematic. There was a reason his own family wanted him dead.

but, on a less plot driven argument:

while I enjoy the safe sane and consensual kinks a lot, sometimes I just want it to be nasty and problematic. I can absolutely understand if that squicks some people, but I also don’t want to water it down or make excuses for it until it becomes a ‘right thing to do’ because that takes from the smutty enjoyment factor for me.

I will try to tag appropriately but also please just be aware of it yourself and skip the posts that you feel might squick you.