shakenjester
replied to your post “As another non-sex-adverse ace, can I ask how you get through it some…”

Nonny, if you’re talking about giving and/or receiving sex from someone, my recommendation to you is to try and remember exactly why you want to do this. If certain things bother you, tell your partner! If they’re any good, they will understand and endeavor not to do them [but the heat of the moment being what it is, they might forget.] Just- tell them!

oh I hadn’t even considered that they might be in a relationship. good thinking!