Does it matter if the partner being cuckolded knows about it or is it ok if they don’t?

well them knowing it is the most fun thing about it? otherwise it would be just cheating and that’s no fun.

What’s hot to me is both of them getting off on it; the ‘inadequate’ partner getting told how to really satisfy their SO, and how bad they are at doing it… mmmmmmmmhhhhhhhhhhhh