As another non-sex-adverse ace, can I ask how you get through it some times? I feel really gross pretty often, since half of me likes the idea of sex and the other half is absolutely disgusted by real people being sexual. Sorry if I’m being too personal.

hmmmm

I don’t get disgusted per se by real people being sexual. I do have my phases where I like to watch porn, but will have to skip through stuff with spit or cum because I have a very sensitive gag reflex and that’s just gross to me. (funny because I like to write about it so much lol)

if I’m not in the mood for actual real people porn I just stay with written porn instead. I dunno… hmm.

I’d like to say ‘simply don’t think about it if it is disgusting to you’ but it’s probably not that easy. I don’t have any real advise to give, other than to say that you should always have your comfort in mind and if watching real person porn is not for you then *shrugs shoulders* it’s just not for you. no harm done.

I wouldn’t concern myself with how other people get off or what they might think about how you get off because they’re not you and not there and just… do what feels good for you and how you feel comfortable