hmm there is not much to say about it tbh. it’s just my number one go to kink that splits off in a few other v unpopular kinks because they raise the humiliation to the max.
it’s just… a combination of embarrassment and dirty talk and aroused-against-will stuff. Maybe that’s the “appealing” thing for me. that the humiliated party needs to reluctantly enjoy it. I just like when both parties are into what’s happening and it’s not rape.
which is why I rarely read it from other people because I never know what route it’ll go. also it’s just a sadly rare kink