cyber do you have any tips for writing femdom stuff? my gf really likes it and i generally write for her, but it’s not something i go out of my way to read… id rly just like any advice you have for the kind of language to use, even good scenarios to start with..?

Well I guess what is always important to keep in mind is the fact that femdom does not mean that the lady is super mean and harsh all the time. she can be just as gentle and nurturing as the male dominants we always read about in fics.

what I do think is, that she would play a lot more with her body to tease her submissive; cupping her tits and offering them up; spreading her labia to show him/her. things that the submissive ultimately wants because he/she wants to please their dominant, but have not yet earned.

language-wise, I feel like I tend to go towards endearments a lot, sometimes maybe a bit infantilizing sounding. a bit condescending without being mean about it? something like that. just in general her being calm and in charge, and if she wants to get rimmed, she’ll pull her sub’s face right where she needs it, you know?

scenarios to start with… hmmm… I don’t know what fandom you write for or if it even is a fandom. it could be her coming home from work and wanting to wind down, or could be even her submissive coming home from work and her helping him/her down.

it could be them on a vacation and her domming him/her right around the corner.

It could be them in a play area of the club with her submissive wanting to show off how well behaved he/she is.

stuff like that, I think

I guess the most important is really: femdom doesn’t mean the lady has to always be mean and in latex and snapping a whip