I’ve seen like an… ‘argument’ that fandom normalizes prblmatic stuff and that unless you would tell your friends who don’t frequent fandom spaces about things you ship or like you shouldn’t ship/like it at all and? That’s why it stays on my dirt blog and on internet? Because normal people don’t want to see it? Like irl people wouldn’t get your complicated gender, sexuality, kin stuff and overly detailed disk horse either? Try explaining your mum fae pronouns and god kin. Not hatin, just saying