Hey cyber, do you have any advice for someone who’s considering starting to take commissions? I’ve never done them before but I’ve started having people ask, but I have no idea what to charge or how it usually works or anything

uh… I dunno what exactly you’re looking for. I can tell you what I do. I charge 1€ per 100 words through paypal; I talk to the people beforehand and ask them about what they were thinking of; what kinks they’d like me to include, what stuff they *don’t* want me to include. I let them tell me an estimate of how long they would like it to be (aka how much money they can put into it).

when everything is said and done and we’re both happy with it, I open up a google docs and give them the link so they can tell me if they like something and especially if they *don’t* like something so I can change everything accordingly

after everything is done I look into the wordcount of google docs and tell them how much money it actually came to in the end. They send the money via paypal and everybody is happy

sorry people are projecting their insecurities onto your work, what you do is cool and they need to realise that fetish writing is not an attack on them. if people don’t like something, then they can filter it or unfollow, it’s not your job to police their dashboard.

I know, Nonnie, but thanks for saying so 🙂

in general it should be known that: I obviously don’t intent to hurt people or make them uncomfortable. It never is my intention to body shame anybody or make anyone feel insecure about their physiology.

however.

a few of my absolute favorite kinks are humiliation and embarrassment. I like them consensual and with all parties enjoying them and getting off on them.

What you project into it/how you interpret my writing is, however, at the end of the day, your ‘problem’, as harsh as that might sound.

if you feel like the way I talk about dicks of varying sizes the way I did/do today is not for you, then maybe my dash might not be for you in general.

Keep your own mental health in mind in these matters.

take care